Can a woman be explicit about wanting a man in her life? Why are there negative connotations when a woman asserts her position, of wanting to find someone for a serious relationship?

Do you think being upfront and honest, makes a woman overly aggressive or a cougar?

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

--Reinhold Niebuhr

Where do you go to find the wisdom? What do you trust to decipher the difference?

No one can deny the Holiday Spirit! When it moves you, it moves you. Since this is the season of giving make sure you remember to give your self a break!

Please do not go online spending large amounts and putting it on your credit card!

Communication is often deemed the most important component of a healthy relationship, are there any other factors to help sustain a positive and rewarding relationship?